Society teaches you the truth about human nature! Schools don’t teach it, parents don’t understand, and people who do understand won’t tell you!① You must experience three kinds of ordinaryness in life: accept the ordinaryness of your parents when you are twenty, accept your own ordinaryness when you are in your forties, and accept the ordinaryness of your children when you are in your fifties.②Quit an inappropriate job, withdraw from an inappropriate circle, say goodbye to an inappropriate relationship, leave an inappropriate person, it is not terrible to get on the wrong bus, it is a kind of wisdom to be willing to get off.③If there is mutual sympathy but no mutual wealth, the two parties cannot get along. Help the urgent but not the poor, help the stupid but not the lazy. Don't argue with evil dogs, and don't reason with fools.④No matter how big the eaves of others are, it is not as good as having your own umbrella.⑤A neurosis is easy to identify, but a group of neurotics is difficult to detect. The person who is first discovered and pointed out is usually considered mentally ill.⑥If a couple doesn't get divorced, they can't see their true nature; if sisters don't touch money, they can't see their faces; if their children don't touch the hospital bed, they can't see their filial piety; if friends don't touch their interests, they can't see their humanity.⑦Never complain about what has happened. If you are strong, just change it; if you are weak, just accept it. What makes you irritable and depressed is just your incompetence.⑧If you remind a fool that he has been cheated, the fool will think that you are insulting his IQ, and that you have offended the liar and harmed his interests, so they will unite to punish you.
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